Unhelpful thinking can destroy your career
It is the way we think that determines our destiny.
- Unhelpful thinking- “I’m not skilled/educated/young/old enough. This is terrible that I failed.” Result: you feel bad, stop job searching for a week or longer and miss a great opportunity.
- Helpful thinking- “They thought someone else was more suited for the position. This may be a good thing… there is probably a better opportunity out there waiting for me.” Result: you feel okay, continue job searching and get a position to which you are better suited.
You can see how the same external event or trigger can create two very different results. Whether you feel good or bad stems from how your mind interprets situations. Your mind is very powerful. It will either sabotage your career efforts or allow you to create the career and life path you most deeply desire.
So what can you do about it? Pay attention to your thinking. Get to know and recognize your patterns. Say to yourself “Oh, that’s just my “doubter” working overtime” or “That’s just my inner critic giving me a hard time.” Don’t worry about it, just step back, observe yourself and then look for an alternative view that is more helpful. To be able to laugh at yourself and your self-sabotages is incredibly empowering… and a lot more enjoyable than getting stuck in them!
While we may not be fully responsible for the programming we received as children, we are, as adults, the only ones who can be responsible for correcting it.
For career success improve your mind as much as possible but don’t wait for perfection. Swing into action as soon as you can and learn from your mistakes and your victories along the way.
EVERYONE makes mistakes as they try out different jobs – that is all part of the learning process.
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Note: A Career Development Association of Australia research paper found that when professional career guidance occurred that the participant was 2.67 times more likely to secure a job.
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